Our Churches may be closed,
but our Hearts are still Open
The Rector's letter, and other items usually on this page have been moved to a new page, together with the Church Magazine. These can now be found here
The information contained on this page will be updated regularly as new information becomes available.
Here is a new song written by a Lee Abbey Community member for all of us as we go through this crisis.
How to make your own Palm Cross using paper or card
Sundays @ 7pm
Lighting a candle every Sunday evening at 7pm during this crisis and putting it in your window will be a sign of our solidarity and hope in the light of Jesus Christ that can never be extinguished.
This coming Sunday our prayers will be directed in support of our fantastic NHS and the hard working professionals and volunteers who are maintaining our nation's network of medical and social care.
A short reflection by Prebendary Jackie Taylor, Dean for Women in Ministry, will be posted on the Diocesan website to help focus our prayer.
This is a time when we can come together as community, even though we are apart for a short time. Please use this page to offer help, prayers for one another, support, and humour to keep ourselves going!
The love of God is bigger than anything we face, that’s what our faith tells us and has told us for centuries past. That is what we hold onto in times of fear. God is with us.
And what’s the part we play? Love God, and love our neighbour. This is the time we can put those words into action.
Prayers for those unable to be present at a funeral
While funerals will still take place at the graveside (not in the church itself) there will be rules on gatherings and social distancing that need to be applied in order to protect those who are elderly or vulnerable. Added to that many who would usually wish to attend a funeral may be unable to travel or be self-isolating. Here follows some prayers that can be said at home at the time of the funeral, words which are deliberately based on the Funeral Service itself. You can read the words silently or aloud, or read them together with others in your household or perhaps even on Skype.
The Gathering
We meet in the name of Jesus Christ,
who died and was raised to the glory of God the Father.
We join with those in (place) in remembering before God our brother/sister N;
to give thanks for his/her life; to commend him/her to God our merciful redeemer and judge; to commit his/her body to be buried/cremated, and to comfort one another in our grief.
God of all consolation, your Son Jesus Christ was moved to tears at the grave of Lazarus his friend.
Look with compassion on your children in their loss;
give to troubled hearts the light of hope and strengthen in us the gift of faith,
in Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
A time to share memories
If you are alone, and if you are able, write down some memories of the person who has died. You may be able to look back at these before a later memorial service or send them with your love to family and close friends.
A Reading
John 14.1-6
Jesus said to his disciples: ‘Do not let your hearts be troubled. Believe in God, believe also in me. In my Father’s house there are many dwelling places. If it were not so, would I have told you that I go to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and will take you to myself, so that where I am, there you may be also. And you know the way to the place where I am going.’ Thomas said to him, ‘Lord, we do not know where you are going. How can we know the way?’ Jesus said to him, ‘I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.’
Psalm 23
1 The Lord is my shepherd; therefore can I lack nothing.
2 He makes me lie down in green pastures and leads me beside still waters.
3 He shall refresh my soul and guide me in the paths of righteousness for his name’s sake.
4 Though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil;
for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.
5 You spread a table before me in the presence of those who trouble me;
you have anointed my head with oil and my cup shall be full.
6 Surely goodness and loving mercy shall follow me all the days of my life,
and I will dwell in the house of the Lord for ever.
Prayers
The words below are a guide – but you may want to say your own words or keep a time of quiet.
God our Father, we thank you that you have made each of us in your own image, and given us gifts and talents with which to serve you.
We thank you for ...............…. . We thank you for the years we shared with him/her,,
for their talents and gifts, the good seen in him/her, the love we received from him/her.
Now give us strength and courage to leave him/her in your care, confident in your promise of eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.
SILENCE Lord in your mercy, hear our prayer.
Your mighty power brings joy out of grief and life out of death.
Look in mercy on ................................... and all family and friends who mourn.
Give
them patient faith in times of darkness. Strengthen them with the
knowledge of your love.
We give thanks for those who were good friends to .......... and for those who love the family he/she has left behind. We ask you to bless all those who care because in their love, we see your love for us.
SILENCE Lord in your mercy, hear our prayer.
You
are tender towards your children and your mercy is over all your
works.
Heal
the memories of hurt and failure.
Give
us the wisdom and grace to use well the time that is left to us
here on earth,
to
turn to Christ and follow in his steps in the way that leads to
everlasting life.
SILENCE Lord in your mercy, hear our prayer.
God of mercy, entrusting into your hands all that you have made and rejoicing in our communion with all your faithful people, we make our prayers through Jesus Christ our Saviour. Amen.
Our
Father, which art in heaven,
hallowed
be thy name;
thy
kingdom come;
thy
will be done;
on
earth as it is in heaven.
Give
us this day our daily bread.
And
forgive us our trespasses,
as
we forgive those who trespass against us.
And
lead us not into temptation;
but
deliver us from evil.
For
thine is the kingdom,
the
power and the glory,
for
ever and ever.
Amen.
Commendation and farewell
First, keep a moment of silence.
God our creator and redeemer, by your power Christ conquered death and entered into glory. Confident of his victory and claiming his promises, we entrust .................. to your mercy in the name of Jesus our Lord, who died and is alive and reigns with you, now and for ever. Amen
Final blessing
Keep in your mind all those who would have been at the funeral as you say these words. You might then listen to a favourite piece of music or be still.
The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, and the love of God, and the fellowship of the Holy Ghost, be with us all evermore. Amen.
Prayers about the outbreak
Keep
us, good Lord,
under
the shadow of your mercy
in
this time of uncertainty and distress.
Sustain
and support the anxious and fearful,
and
lift up all who are brought low;
that
we may rejoice in your comfort
knowing
that nothing can separate us from your love in Christ Jesus our
Lord.
Amen.
Lord
Jesus Christ,
you
taught us to love our neighbour, and to care for those in
need
as
if we were caring for you.
In
this time of anxiety, give us strength to comfort the fearful, to
tend the sick, and to assure the isolated
of
our love, and your love,
for
your name’s sake.
Amen.
God
of compassion,
be
close to those who are ill, afraid or in isolation. In their
loneliness, be their consolation;
in
their anxiety, be their hope;
in
their darkness, be their light;
through
him who suffered alone on the cross, but reigns with you in
glory,
Jesus
Christ our Lord.
Amen.
For those who are ill
Merciful
God,
we
entrust to your tender care
those
who are ill or in pain,
knowing
that whenever danger threatens
your
everlasting arms are there to hold them safe. Comfort and heal
them,
and
restore them to health and strength;
through
Jesus Christ our Lord.
Amen.
For hospital staff and medical researchers
Gracious
God,
give
skill, sympathy and resilience
to
all who are caring for the sick,
and
your wisdom to those searching for a cure. Strengthen them with
your Spirit,
that
through their work many will be restored to health; through Jesus
Christ our Lord.
Amen.
From one who is ill or isolated
O
God,
help
me to trust you,
help
me to know that you are with me,
help
me to believe that nothing can separate me from your
love
revealed
in Jesus Christ our Lord.
Amen.
For the Christian community
We
are not people of fear:
we
are people of courage.
We
are not people who protect our own safety:
we are people who protect our neighbours’ safety.
We
are not people of greed:
we
are people of generosity.
We
are your people God,
giving
and loving,
wherever
we are,
whatever
it costs
For
as long as it takes
wherever
you call us.
Barbara Glasson, President of the Methodist Conference
Safeguarding
If you have a concern about the safety of someone or the actions of someone working with children or vulnerable adults, please speak to someone:
The link to the Diocesan Safeguarding Team’s contact details - https://exeter.anglican.org/resources/safeguarding/safeguarding-team/